Why are 42% of black women not married?

I've seen this youtube video on several black sites/blogs & i absolutely loved everything about these 7 minutes! Just today i was talking with my girl about how hard it is for some women to find a (good) man & now we see WHY. She's a succesful black woman as well and she's looking for a succesful black man. She has high standards and isn't willing to lower them to be with someone who isn't compatible. But truth is that it's going to be a hassle for her to find a man who will fitt her (high) criteria since she wants a handsome, caring, intelligent, succesful, childless & FAITHFULL black man. I am so sorry to say this, but that right that is rare. My opinion is that being with someone who has it all shouldn't be a must because it could be possible to get where you want him to be together. Working towards something together could be fulfilling as well. It's important to have the same views about the fundamentals and the rest will fall into place.